The Priming Game: Why Being Everywhere Matters More Than Being Perfect

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Ever wonder why some consultants seem to win all the business?

It’s not because they’re better.

It’s because they’re everywhere.

The Trust Formula

Trust isn’t rational.

It’s not about logic.

It’s about familiarity.

The more someone sees you:

  • In their LinkedIn feed
  • In their inbox
  • At industry events
  • On their phone
  • In their network

The more they trust you.

Whether they should or not.

The Priming Effect

Your brain has a shortcut:

Familiar = Trustworthy

It’s why you trust:

  • Brands you’ve seen forever
  • Names you keep hearing
  • Faces you recognize

Even if you’ve never done business with them.

The Professional’s Paradox

Most consultants think:

“I’ll reach out when I have something important to say.”

“I don’t want to bother people.”

“Quality over quantity.”

Meanwhile, their competitors are:

Showing up every day

Being consistently visible

Building unconscious trust

The Visibility Game

You don’t need to be:

  • The best writer
  • The most eloquent speaker
  • The deepest expert

You need to be:

Present.

Consistent.

Everywhere they look.

The Simple Math

One touchpoint = A name

Three touchpoints = Recognition

Five touchpoints = Familiarity

Seven touchpoints = Trust

Ten touchpoints = Preference

But here’s the key:

Different channels

Different contexts

Same message

The Channel Mix

Be where they are:

  • LinkedIn posts
  • Email newsletters
  • Phone calls
  • Industry events
  • Direct mail
  • Blog content
  • Speaking engagements

Not because each one works perfectly.

But because together, they work powerfully.

The Content Truth

Your content doesn’t need to be:

  • Revolutionary
  • Perfect
  • Unique

It needs to be:

  • Consistent
  • Relevant
  • Present

The Frequency Factor

Weekly isn’t enough. Monthly is forgettable. Quarterly is invisible.

You need to be:

Showing up daily

Adding value regularly

Staying top of mind consistently

The Implementation

Start with:

  • One daily LinkedIn post
  • Two weekly emails
  • Three monthly calls
  • Four quarterly events

But most importantly:

Keep showing up

Keep being visible

Keep adding value

The Objection

“But won’t I annoy people?”

Wrong question.

The right question: “Am I adding value every time I show up?”

If yes, frequency builds trust.

If no, frequency builds irritation.

The Professional’s Choice

You can be:

  • Perfect but invisible
  • Or present and trusted

You can:

  • Wait for the perfect moment
  • Or create multiple moments

You can:

  • Hope they remember you
  • Or make it impossible to forget you

The Next Step

Look at your last month:

  • How often did prospects see you?
  • In how many different places?
  • With what consistency?

Then double it.

Then double it again.

Because here’s the truth: Being good isn’t enough.

Being visible makes you valuable.

The game isn’t won by the best.

It’s won by the present.

Choose to be present.

 

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